About Coralyn Jewel

The Coralyn Jewel Empire stems from courage, determination, and tenacity.


"To empower a sex-positive generation by emphasizing the importance of embracing your sexuality and how it contributes to living a healthy and happy fulfilling life!"

"Society has created walls around all things that are Sex-Positive and it is my goal to tear down those walls and build bridges with the leftover rubble".


I take a no-holds-barred approach sharing my personal stories, trials, and tribulations in hopes to inspire you to embark on your personal journey of discovering your true self.

Why Coralyn?

I promise to guide you on your path to personal discovery, embracing your sexuality and finding your own inner truth.

  • Experience in the Lifestyle as a couple and single
  • Owner of successful Lifestyle community and club Hankie Pankie Lifestyle since 2012 with over 20,000 members
  • Over 15 years experience in the Adult Industry as a performer, director, producer, editor, webcam model, content creator, talent manager and gentleman's club manager.
  • Owner and host of the Sex-positive podcast The Hankie Pankie Podcast
  • Certified Masters Sexologist
  • Relationship and Lifestyle Coach
  • Contributing online blogger for various sex-positive platforms such as PleazeMe.com, Sexpert.com and Kinkly.com
  • Online chat agent for Dr. Suzie Institute
  • I specialize in alternative relationship styles.
  • I offer a comforting environment without judgment or shaming. I am open-minded, understanding, compassionate and truly want you to succeed on your journey to self discovery.

I am here to guide you on your journey

15+Years of Experience
1845+Coaching Session
20k+Community Members
10+Years as Club Owner


My Yellow Brick Road

Who is Coralyn Jewel?

Coralyn Jewel is a perfect example of a woman living by her favorite quotes, “Patience will prosper" and "You have one life to live, live it for you". From South African Immigrant to Olympic hopeful dreams shattered. Never would Coralyn have fathomed then and now.

A divorced single mother with no direction or purpose was put to the test. Her journey will inspire you to never give up and take your life into your own hands and OWN IT.

The turbulent path of twist, turns, obstacles, tears, laughter, success, failure and tribulations from then till now, were to prepare Coralyn for her destiny and her mission.

In 2020, Coralyn penned her international best-seller When the Ice Melts: The Story of Coralyn Jewel, where she bares all. From a career in fitness to a full fledged career as an Adult Performer, director, producer and model.

Today, Coralyn has furthered her education as a certified master’s sexologist and now works as a lifestyle coach, motivational speaker, and podcast host of The Hankie Pankie Podcast. In addition to her educational seminars and coaching, Coralyn writes for various online Sex-Positive platforms. Through her articles and her other teachings, she hopes she can offer guidance and support to others involved in alternative relationship styles or anyone open-minded with the curiosity to learn more.

Coralyn has graced the covers and pages of AVN, Las Vegas Journal, ASN Lifestyle, Lifestylers Magazine, and NightMoves magazines. She scored her first industry nomination in 2015 from AVN for Best Polyamory Movie for her scene Adam & Eve’s Wife Swinger Swap 3 and her second one in 2022 for Hottest MILF. 2021 brought multiple ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards nominations for Best Lifestyle Adult Educator Website, Best Lifestyle & Adult Industry Erotic Writer, and Best Lifestyle Adult Educator.

Coralyn is an open book when it comes to talking openly about sex. Only when Coralyn made the decision to embrace her sexuality and own it did she finally have the freedom to speak freely about being an Advocate for Sex-positivity, empowerment and embracement. Admitting openly to family, friends, and the rest of the world, who I am, what I do for a career and what I stand for.

Coralyn is on a mission through her books, articles, weekly podcasts, and her Sex-Positive seminars to help break the misconceptions and judgement of those who choose the adult industry as their career and those who choose to be involved in an alternative relationship that deviates from what society considers the “Norm”.

Coralyn is nearing the completion of her documentary based on her best seller and is scheduled to release her 2nd book from her series, based on “The Lifestyle.
Join Coralyn’s journey through life as a sex worker in a world where judgment is human nature. Learn from her tribulations and triumphs navigating her way through legal battles, financial and emotional obstacles. See how it was only when she finally found her own truth, did she then see the path to her destined future as an educator and a sex-positive advocate, helping others to embrace their sexuality.

Coralyn Jewel portrays courage, determination and is a perfect example that reiterates to her readers, fans, and listeners, “Don’t Judge a Book by Its Cover”.

More about Coralyn, her tour schedule, release dates of her next book and other informative articles’ can be found on her coaching website along with additional articles and links to various podcast platforms, where you can tune-in weekly and hear from a new sex-positive guests.

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Reflecting on 2021 and my new friendships along my journey

October 28, 2021
Reflection Part 1 As 2021 soon comes to a close, I wanted to take this time to reflect on 2020 ...

You could have been anything?

January 15, 2022
For those of you who have read my book in its entirety, I believe you would agree, I have had ...

How Well Do you Truly know someone?

April 4, 2022
My guest this week is a man I met seven years ago, in the early stages of my adult career. ...